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GHOSTWITTHEMOST

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Well the titles says it and i dont know what to do. I am getting married this september and all of these people are in my wedding. Here it is. ive known Brian for 12 years.since highschool. I am 25. He has been with Amy since 2006.Ive been working with Brian since 2005. I work next to him all day! Josh is my riding buddy. Only person i ride with on the regular. Ive only been good friends with Josh since about 2009. I just foound out that Amy and Josh have something going on.:spank: what do i do??????? brian is an *** to his gf she doesnt desever it but it doesnt give her the right to cheat on him. and josh,,,,,he goes over there with us on the weekends! when i found this out I almost felt like i was being cheated on. my stomach hurt! A few things ive been thinking about
-afraid to tell brian. what will he do?
-lose josh as a friend?
-lose brian as a friend because i didnt tell him and he finds out i knew???
-my fiance nicole looses amy as a friend?
-brian goes crazy and looses job? id be screwed if that happend!
-whats gonna happen to the bridal party?

Thank you for any input
 
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JT

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GHOSTWITTHEMOST said:
Well the titles says it and i dont know what to do. I am getting married this september and all of these people are in my wedding. Here it is. ive known Brian for 12 years.since highschool. I am 25. He has been with Amy since 2006.Ive been working with Brian since 2005. I work next to him all day! Josh is my riding buddy. Only person i ride with on the regular. Ive only been good friends with Josh since about 2009. I just foound out that Amy and Josh have something going on.:spank: what do i do??????? brian is an *** to his gf she doesnt desever it but it doesnt give her the right to cheat on him. and josh,,,,,he goes over there with us on the weekends! when i found this out I almost felt like i was being cheated on. my stomach hurt! A few things ive been thinking about
-afraid to tell brian. what will he do?
-lose josh as a friend?
-lose brian as a friend because i didnt tell him and he finds out i knew???
-my fiance nicole looses amy as a friend?
-brian goes crazy and looses job? id be screwed if that happend!
-whats gonna happen to the bridal party?

Thank you for any input
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Wow this is a very comlicated and tough situation.

I normaly try to stay out of people buiness id say let it play out by itslef (normaly id play that)

but beeing that I just got divorced and know how crappy it is I would say something ASAP before the wedding. all other reprecutions are not your fault or prob they brought it upon themselves.
 
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GHOSTWITTHEMOST

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it is very hard! i am being selfish not telling him and trying to keep josh as a friend. it is in my personality to stay out of it and see what happens but the hardest part is working with brian everyday.
 
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JT

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GHOSTWITTHEMOST said:
i guess if the wedding party doesnt really matter all the much in this situation
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yea I was a little confused as to who was getting married.

so are you getting married and all of the best men and brides are sleeping with each other ??? then yea maybe let it play out. with most relationships things either escalate or die fast.
 
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Nastybutler

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I'd tell Amy that the jig is up. Either she comes clean, or breaks up with Brian and you'll keep your mouth shut. Otherwise you'll tell Brian. Put the ball in her court to do the right thing. If she calls your bluff, that's when you'll have the tough decision. But see what she does first.
 
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Brock Kickass

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No matter how you slice it, it's going to be a disaster when this all comes crashing down. Try to be as far from the fallout as your can be. You should rig it so that they find out on their own and your involvement is hidden. Just sort of "help" the situation along.
 
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JT

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Nastybutler said:
I'd tell Amy that the jig is up. Either she comes clean, or breaks up with Brian and you'll keep your mouth shut. Otherwise you'll tell Brian. Put the ball in her court to do the right thing. If she calls your bluff, that's when you'll have the tough decision. But see what she does first.
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what he said! best thing to do...
 
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crobih

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Wow so josh is banging brians gf fully knowing them 2 are an item and yet he obviously values pussy more then friendship. Tell u what if she is doing that within the circle she probably done worse outside the circle. Thise 2 deserve each other but brian needs to beat dudes *** and cut that skank off.
 
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nismos14

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Are you 100% certain that there is cheating going on? Or assuming?
 
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GHOSTWITTHEMOST

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JT said:
yea I was a little confused as to who was getting married.

so are you getting married and all of the best men and brides are sleeping with each other ??? then yea maybe let it play out. with most relationships things either escalate or die fast.
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lol yea im getting married and this is whats happening 4 months before. ive thought about how i could help this situation along. brian is going to flip out no matter what. i think the fish tank at their house is going down
 
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GHOSTWITTHEMOST

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nismos14 said:
Are you 100% certain that there is cheating going on? Or assuming?
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me josh and my other buddy justin who is in the wedding as well hang out all the time. justin and i have talked to eachother aboutjosh and amy flirting a litttle when we go over brian and amys. the other day Justin brought it up to Josh and Josh admitted it to justin. justin told me.justin asked him what they did and he replied with made out and some other stuff. when asked the big Q ..... he didnt answer.
 
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Fizzer6R

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maybe i missed it, how did you find out?
 
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nismos14

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Don't wait on this, you have 4 months to go. Tell Amy you know, and that she needs to do something, or leave it all completely alone. This could potentially f up your wedding.
 
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JT

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crobih said:
Wow so josh is banging brians gf fully knowing them 2 are an item and yet he obviously values pussy more then friendship. Tell u what if she is doing that within the circle she probably done worse outside the circle. Thise 2 deserve each other but brian needs to beat dudes *** and cut that skank off.
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You deserve rep lmfao
 
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MNGreg

waiting out winter
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I agree with Nasty and Nismos! You and your fiance maybe talk to Amy about this now. Give it time to get the issue resolved so things settle down before your wedding. Because this will probably impact your wedding, you want to get in front of this, though not fully in front. Hopefully you and your wife saying something will get Amy to resolve the issue, maybe breaking up with Brian if it is that bad. But if resolved now, maybe things will be quiet for your wedding, they will be cool enough to be mature about it and be cool at your wedding or, if not mature enough, it will give you time to find replacement wedding party members (if needed).

This definately sucks though man. Hope all goes well for you. You have a right to be selfish on this because it could impact your wedding in a possible memorable way. Weddings arent cheap and they are once in a lifetime (hopefully).
 
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crobih

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JT said:
You deserve rep lmfao
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Yeah I'm old school with that kind of stuff. I value a good woman but I also value a good friend, once u cross that line all bets are off
 

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