Well put sir! :thumbup:A #1, the wife is alright. Think we all can agree there that's all that matters. Sux about the bike.
Word of advice, whatever the damage is, tell her it's half as bad. No big deal, fix it behind her back, whatever. She sounds spooked as hell. No offense to the ladies here on the board, but that is very much a common "ladies" response for a lot of women, "I'm never riding again." Your job is to make her a lot less spooked.
I can tell you this, if it were my wife, she'd say the exact same thing. So the next day or two is critical...what you say to her and how she feels about this incident will have a profound impact on her willingness to ride in the future. Keep that in mind.
Best of luck with the inspection, just glad she's OK.
Dude, that's just awful, all the way around. I feel your pain man. Have had similar happen with a fender bender and the missus. You get a bunch of crying, freaking out, and not a single version of the story conforms with the known laws of physics, and you grapple with being compassionate, pissed off, and genuinely curious at how she could pull that kind of vehicular acrobatic off.she dropped it and in turning around to go back home it dumped on the other side of the crown. Idk...every time ive talked to her shes been crying and can barely make sense of the story.
Not necessarily. It is different than insuring a car. Insurance knows something on two wheels is probably going over at some point. You should talk to them and see what they have to say about it. Rates can't go up just for discussing what happened and what your alternatives are.the worse part is im 22 and I cant claim it on insurance or it will skyrocket. The bike feels like it was raped...it doesnt drive right.
shes driven multiple times in a public parking lot. Just the other day we spent a few hours doing the funamentals in the parking lot. Yesterday was just her proud day of saying im ready and I wanna do this.:surrender: lolNot necessarily. It is different than insuring a car. Insurance knows something on two wheels is probably going over at some point. You should talk to them and see what they have to say about it. Rates can't go up just for discussing what happened and what your alternatives are.
On a side note about my recommendation on a public parking lot. That should have been priority over handing her the keys and leaving. You live and learn bro, you just have to handle her situation delicately.
That's good! Personally, as I have one running bike atm, I would have driven behind her, in car, on a Sunday morning to help her confidence after parking lots just aren't cutting it any more.shes driven multiple times in a public parking lot. Just the other day we spent a few hours doing the funamentals in the parking lot. Yesterday was just her proud day of saying im ready and I wanna do this.:surrender: lol